Friends, Property and FOMO?

01.12.25 05:09 PM - Comment(s) - By Manik Sethi

A Practical, Honest Guide for First-Time Investors (Minus the Hype)

 

You’ve probably noticed it.

Everyone around you seems to be talking about buying an investment property.

 

Your colleagues.

Your cousins.

People at barbecues who suddenly speak like economists.

 

And maybe you’ve caught yourself thinking: “Am I missing out? Should I be buying one too?”

 

If you’re feeling a bit of FOMO — you’re not alone.

This is exactly how a lot of first-time investors start their journey. Sometimes in the right direction… sometimes straight into regret.

 

As a buyer’s advocate who works exclusively with property investors, I want to help you slow the noise, cut through the pressure, and make a decision that’s smart, strategic and grounded (not emotional or rushed).

Let’s really talk about it — calmly, honestly, and with the bigger picture in mind.

 

Why So Many People Are Suddenly Buying Investment Properties

 

There’s always a reason people start piling into property at the same time.

Sometimes it’s interest rates.

Sometimes it's the fear of being priced out forever.

Sometimes it’s social pressure.

Other times it’s that very human feeling of “if they’re doing it, maybe I should too.”

Australia’s property market has always been emotional — but lately, it’s been amplified.

Rising rents, low vacancy rates, better rental returns, tax benefits, and the long history of property doubling every 7–10 years… it all makes investing feel safe.
Almost obvious.

 

Add social media to the mix — influencers posting renovations, Airbnb income screenshots, and “I bought three properties in six months” stories — and it’s easy to feel like you’re behind.

But here’s the honest truth:

Everyone’s buying for different reasons. Everyone’s finances are different. And not everyone who buys is doing it wisely.

 

Here’s Why FOMO Is Dangerous… But Also Useful

 

Let’s be real…..FOMO gets a bad rap — but it’s actually very human and sometimes, it nudges people into making big moves they’ve been putting off for years.

 

The problem isn’t the FOMO itself - tt’s acting on it without a plan.

Buying a property because everyone else is buying is not a strategy.

But letting FOMO be the push that makes you finally explore investing? That can be powerful.

 

Just make sure it’s informed, calm, and tailored to your goals — not someone else’s.

 

“Is Now a Good Time to Buy?” The Question Every First-Time Investor Asks

 

Short answer?

There’s no perfect market. There’s only the right strategy.

 

The WA Today article touched on this idea — timing the market is almost impossible.
Even economists get it wrong.

 

But here’s what we do know:

  • Rents across Australia are still rising
  • Vacancy rates remain at record lows
  • Population growth (especially migration) is increasing
  • The housing shortage is not going away
  • Construction costs are high, pushing people back into established homes
  • Over the long term, well-chosen properties still outperform most asset classes

 

These are not short-term trends.

They’re structural.

And they create opportunity — especially for the patient investor who buys well.

 

So yes… it can absolutely be a good time to buy.

If you buy the right thing, in the right place, with the right plan.

 


 

Here’s What You Should Not Do (But Most First-Timers Do Anyway)

 

Let me slide into advisor mode for a second.

I’ve seen these mistakes too many times, and they’re often made by people driven by FOMO.

 

Don’t buy what your friend bought - Your friend’s income, goals, risk profile, borrowing power, and lifestyle are not yours.

Don’t buy in your own suburb just because it’s familiar - Most investors massively limit their options this way.

Don’t chase the cheapest property you can find - Cheap properties can be cheap for a reason. Often multiple reasons.

Don’t get seduced by pretty renovations - Pretty does not mean profitable.

Don’t assume all property goes up in value - Wrong. Some underperform for decades.

Don’t rush because someone else “got in early” - Their timing isn’t your timing.


Your wealth isn’t built on someone else’s timeline.

 

FOMO is manageable if you recognise it and keep your decisions rational.

 

So… Should You Buy an Investment Property? Let’s Break It Down

 

1. Start with your “why.”

 

Are you buying for:

  • long-term wealth?
  • passive income?
  • a tax advantage?
  • future security?

Your “why” determines your strategy.

 

2. Understand what you can realistically afford.

 

This is where a mortgage broker becomes your best friend. Your borrowing power sets your boundaries — and protects you.

 

3. Decide whether you need cash flow or capital growth.

 

Some investors need rental income to help hold the property. Others want the biggest long-term growth possible.


 

4. Know your risk tolerance.

 

Are you okay with short-term dips? Can you handle interest rate changes? Do you have buffer savings?

 

5. Be honest about how hands-on you want to be.

 

Renovator? Or set-and-forget?

 

6. Get clear on your timeline.

 

Property is a long game. 5, 10, 15 years. Sometimes longer. When you understand these things, the “should I buy?” question becomes a lot clearer.

 

Why It Might Be a Great Time for First-Time Investors

 

Let me give you the optimistic, opportunity-focused perspective — because yes, there are strong reasons to take action right now.

 

Rental yields are strong : Higher rents = better cash flow than a few years ago.

Property supply is low : Limited supply pushes values up over time.

Migration continues to surge : More people need housing — investors benefit.

Construction is expensive : Buyers are turning to established homes, increasing demand.

Interest rates may stabilise : You don’t need perfect rates — stability is enough.

Early investors usually win the long game : Time in the market beats timing the market. It’s cliché because it’s true.

You learn best by doing : Sometimes the first investment is the hardest simply because psychologically, it’s new territory.

 

And the people who take calculated action sooner — not reckless, rushed action — tend to build the biggest portfolios over time.

 

But… Only If You Buy the Right Property

 

Not all real estate is created equal.

Some properties grow, perform, and generate long-term wealth. Others stagnate.

 

Smart investors choose properties with:

  • strong rental demand
  • diverse local economies
  • infrastructure spending
  • population growth
  • low vacancy
  • scarcity of supply
  • affordable price points
  • long-term fundamentals

The right property in the wrong location?
Still the wrong property.

 

The wrong property in the right location?
Still the wrong property.

You need both.

 

This is where having an advisor — someone who studies markets daily — makes a massive difference.

 

A Real-World Example of FOMO Gone Wrong

 

A few years ago, a young guy I met bought a property because five of his friends bought in the same suburb.

Everyone told him it was “the next big thing.”

 

He stretched his budget, rushed the decision - didn’t research vacancy rates or long-term demand.

 

Three years later:

  • rents fell
  • prices barely moved
  • the area had oversupply issues
  • his friends all quietly admitted they made a mistake

 

But he was the one who nearly had to sell at a loss. FOMO moves fast. Regret lasts longer.

 

And Here’s a FOMO Story That Worked Out Brilliantly

 

Another client of mine — also a first-time investor — felt left behind as everyone around her was buying property. But instead of rushing, she reached out, asked the right questions, and built a strategy.

 

We found a suburb with:

  • strong population growth
  • tight rental supply
  • affordable entry price
  • infrastructure projects
  • improving yields
  • solid long-term projections

 

She bought well because her property grew in value and the rental income rose steadily. And now she’s planning investment number two.

 

The difference?
Strategy > emotion.


 

So… Should You Buy One Too?

 

Here’s my honest, advisor perspective:

 

If you can afford a well-located, research-backed investment property that aligns with your long-term goals — then yes, it’s absolutely worth considering.

 

Not because your friends are doing it.
Not because social media says so.
Not because you’re scared of missing out.

 

But because property, when chosen carefully, can be a powerful wealth-building tool in Australia. If you’re buying for the right reasons — and with the right support — you’re giving yourself the chance to get ahead sooner.

 

Final Thoughts

 

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, unsure, or pressured by what everyone else is doing — take a breath.

You don’t need to rush.

But you do need to be informed.

 

If you want help knowing where to start, how to avoid mistakes, and how to choose a

property that fits your goals instead of someone else’s… I’m here.

 

As a buyer’s advocate, I help first-time investors make confident, strategic decisions — not emotional ones.

 

If you’d like to chat, explore options, or simply ask questions, reach out anytime.

A quick conversation could save you months if not years of guesswork.